tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72393509283417947832024-03-05T13:36:13.146-08:00Nature and scienceCh.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-51578912908424322832011-01-19T12:00:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.671-08:00Helping Children Cope with Violence<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Witnessing violence on television or in video games really pales in comparison to witnessing violence in real life situations. Children who have been exposed to violence, such as neighborhood shootings, abusive parents, bullying at school, and so on, may develop signs of post-traumatic stress disorder, more commonly known as PTSD. PTSD leads to poor grades, difficulty concentrating, severe depression, and sometimes suicide if it is not managed with proper coping skills. Children who have witnessed real life violence are in serious danger mentally and emotionally.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Psychologists use a particular training method called "cognitive behavior therapy" to teach children skills to cope with violence. It is not as difficult as it sounds, and many psychologists are trained in the methods of cognitive behavior therapy. In fact, parents and teachers use these methods all the time without knowing it because there are sensible ways to raise children who cope with difficult situations.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Coping Skill #1: Face Fear in a Safe Environment</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Children who do not face their fears internalize them, which may destroy their developing sense of self. However, these fears must be faced in a safe environment with a supportive adult who can work with the child to understand the fear.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">For instance, if a child is afraid to go to school because of violence created by bullies, a caring adult can lead the child to talk about how they feel. Identifying triggers such as seeing the kid who beats up other kids, walking alone in the hallway or home from school, or hearing the bell for lunch time, helps the child and adult to diffuse the fear and understand what is going on inside their heads and hearts.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The coping skill the child learns through this exercise is how to distinguish between situations which really pose a threat and situations which are not threatening but still cause fear. Imagined threats can be solved with the child's own inner strengths. Truly bad situations must be solved through other interventions.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Coping Skill #2: Effective Social Problem Solving</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">If children are the victims of violence, they may have trouble relating to peers and adults because proper models of effective social interaction do not exist in their world. Even minor conflicts may cause outbursts. Cognitive behavior therapists teach children how to cope with social interactions.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The therapist starts with examples such as stories which detail problem situations. The child is asked leading questions as to how the characters should solve the problem peacefully. Through these learning exercises, the adult leads the child into considering all sides of the situation before deciding on an action.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Proper social problem-solving skills may help the child avoid violence, but they will certainly help the child manage his or her reaction to violence if it does happen. There are situations in which no coping skills will help avoid conflict but most of the time problems can be solved peacefully.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Coping Strategy #3: Create a Support Network for the Child</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Ideally, the child's parents or direct guardians will be involved in all efforts to help the child cope with violence. This type of support network in which everyone is working toward the goal of a healthy child is far more effective than simply teaching the child a few strategies and letting him loose.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Any lesson which is taught by a professional must be carried over into the child's everyday life. This is where a support network of caring adults reinforces the lessons and encourages the child to think for himself and solve problems.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The support network also provides safety for the child. He knows where to go if the only solution is to avoid a violent confrontation. He also knows where to go if fear and conflict become unmanageable. These caring adults must never put the child down for poor coping skills; these skills are learned over a lifetime, after exposure to many life situations.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Deal with Depression and PTSD Immediately</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is very important for adults to learn the signs of depression and post-traumatic stress disorder if they know a child has been exposed to violence. These emotional disorders can lead to suicide if they are not treated properly. If you think a child who has been exposed to violence is in danger, talk to a qualified psychologist or other trained professional immediately.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You must always keep in mind that coping skills are not learned overnight. They require much practice and loving support from caring adults. Encourage the child to talk about feelings in a safe and non-threatening way. This will help externalize feelings about violence and help them learn a very good skill for solving emotional problems.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-37813056402096304052011-01-19T12:00:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.676-08:00The Role of Denial in Anger Management<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Anger can be like an addiction in that people are very creative in finding all sorts of rationales for their anger and why they don't need anger management. At times it can almost appear as if they are in denial about their anger management issues. Part of the reason for this is that the way our behavior looks to us on the inside can look a whole lot different to someone on the receiving end of things.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">I was in denial about my anger management problem, thinking that other people were too sensitive and that they were the ones with the problem. Sometimes people are too sensitive but when you think that pretty much everyone in your life is too sensitive (as I did) you may be in denial about the need for anger management.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Two things happened that woke me up about my need for anger control. The first occurred about 18 years ago when I was working with a couple and all of a sudden the wife just went off on her husband. It was just like looking at myself - she used the same tone of voice, the same language, had the same look in her eyes and the same body language that I used. I was absolutely shocked at how powerful and scary her reaction was. But that wasn't enough for me to realize that I had an anger management problem.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Several days later I was on the phone with a friend of mine and raised my voice, not in anger, but just because of the story I was telling him. All of a sudden my dog jumped off the chair and ran under the bed. It was then that I realized I had an anger management issue. I mean if your own dog is scared of you things are pretty bad.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">So, with that in mind, lets quickly review some of the stories people with anger management problems tell themselves to minimize or justify their anger.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">ANGER MYTHS</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">1) Venting, or taking it out on others, decreases anger. This actually reinforces the neural networks associated with anger. Becoming angry actually makes it more likely that you will get angry again.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">2) Strong anger is necessary to get people to listen to me. Do you like it when others treat you with scorn? People may go along with you in the short term just to get you off their back in the end anger only produces bitterness and resentment.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">3) If I don't get angry, I don't care. Anger certainly shows that you're paying attention. But does anger really get the job done any quicker or show that you care about a problem or them? Care can be shown with by being firm and patient. You can be strong without being having anger control problems.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">4) Someone who makes me angry is worthless and deserves what they have coming to them. When you make mistakes do you feel like you deserve to get blasted? Treating someone as if they have no value by calling them names or saying they can't do anything right just makes it easier for you not to feel bad yourself. People with anger management problems often have low self esteem and will put someone else down to feel better about themselves. This is sort of akin to having a drink to solve your problems - it makes you feel better in the moment but does nothing to help with the real problem.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">5) Showing less anger means I think the other person is right. Or, using anger management means that you are learning ways to deal with others more coolly, constructively and in the end, more effectively. Again, who do you respect more - someone who blasts you or someone who treats you with respect?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">6) Every day brings all sorts of problems for me to deal with. This is true for all of us. Every day also brings a lot of good things too. The problem is what we focus on and what we tell ourselves about it that causes anger management problems.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">7) Depression is anger turned inward. Actually for many depression is anger turned outward. Depressed people often show higher levels of anger and anxiety. They often struggle with anger management because its just so uncomfortable to be in their skin or because their coping resources are so depleted all they are capable of doing when stressed is lash out in anger. People struggling with anger management issues are two to three times more likely to have a psychiatric illness such as depression than those who do not struggle with anger.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-52289982256873108482011-01-19T11:59:00.007-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.681-08:00Criticism Training<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The dictionary definition of criticism is to openly find fault with. If you follow that description its no wonder that criticism often causes the person being criticized to become angry. Given that most people haven't received any training in how to offer criticism its really not all that surprising that it's the cause of so much anger. Because of this, training in how to give criticism should be an important part of any anger management class.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Offering criticism can be even more stressful than receiving it. Studies have shown that people who are about to offer criticism are often concerned that they or the other person may get angry at them and that they will not know how to manage that other person's anger.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">One way to avoid all this stress and anger is to redefine criticism. A number of research studies have shown that people actually want to know what they do well, what they need to improve, and what others believe their strengths and weaknesses are. Most people want to do a good job or be a good spouse or friend and are oftentimes eager to improve. So the trick to providing criticism as a good anger management technique is to redefine it as something that emphasizes teaching rather than finding fault and running someone down.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">In the book, "Criticism Management: How to More Effectively Give, Receive, and Seek Criticism in Our Lives" Randy Garner outlines an alternate definition of criticism that he calls "G.R.I.P.E." which emphasizes criticism as an opportunity to provide useful information which helps another Grow, Recover, Improve, Prosper and Excel (G.R.I.P.E.).</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">What makes for Good Criticism?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Garner feels that the goal of criticism should be to help the recipient G.R.I.P.E. The aim is neither to belittle the person you are criticizing nor to inflate your ego; instead it is offered in a spirit of assistance.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Constructive criticism is:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">1) Problem-focused, not personal</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">2) Specific, not vague</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">3) Descriptive, rather than judgmental or blaming</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">What makes for bad criticism?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The goal of someone who uses destructive criticism is to make you look bad, manipulate you for their own benefit, or to make themself appear better, smarter, or more powerful than you. In short, the goal is not improvement or helping, but to injure your self-esteem. Destructive criticism may be given to show "who's the boss," or demean the other person.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Destructive criticism is:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">1) Often personally focused</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">2) Overly general or vague</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">3) Focused on judgment and blame</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">4) Offered without the best interests of the recipient in mind</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Criticism Techniques for Anger Management</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">1) "Explain as if the Other Person Doesn't Know" Anger Management Technique</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">With this anger management technique criticism is intentionally worded to act as if the person does not know the right way to do something through no fault of their own. For example, you might start out by saying something like "You may not know this, however, we need to have..." or "You may not be aware , of this, however all of these need to be approved before they are sent out." This approach keeps the other person from feeling defensive which makes it much less likely they will become angry.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">2) The "Demonstration" Anger Management Technique</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">One of the best ways to offer criticism is by showing them how you do it. Demonstrating the right approach can be very helpful in keeping someone from becoming angry. This not only communicates that you are willing to lend a hand; it allows you to offer criticism in a way that helps the other improve. Scientific research has shown that people learn fastest and show the most improvement through having someone model the proper way to do something for them. Athletes and executives both use coaches to teach them to be more effective.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">3) "Poop Sandwich" Anger Management Technique</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You probably know this technique by another name. This three step technique involves starting out by saying something positive about the person. Even if they are totally screwing up you might be able to praise their effort and say something like "I totally see you out there working hard and trying your best". Then in the middle you slip in what you are unhappy about or what the person is doing wrong. Then you top it off by telling them how to improve and either using the demonstration anger management technique to make sure they have it down or by simply praising them and saying that you have faith that they can do this. You start and finish on high notes, which cushioning the criticism (aka "poop") in the middle</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-27375212215309465912011-01-19T11:59:00.005-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.686-08:00Why we Need to Take Risks<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It does not matter if you are a Doctor, a Lawyer or an infantry soldier in the Army if you want to be the best and get ahead, you will need to take risks.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">A doctor may have to take risks when working with a patient. The Doctor may have to experiment with different forms of medications or new surgical procedures when all else has failed in an attempt to help the patient.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">A lawyer may have to argue a case in an unorthodox manner to win the case, but if the lawyer wants to become the top lawyer and make millions of dollars fighting high profile cases lots of risks have to be taken.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">A soldier may have to take a risk and run thru gunfire to save another injured soldier, to complete their mission, or just to secure an area from being overrun by enemy troops, after going days with little to no sleep, but if a soldier wants to get promotions and eventually lead men into battle they also need to take risks.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">These risks are not unlike someone looking to get rich in a casino, they have to be willing to risk everything they have to get that million dollar payoff. If you play it safe in a casino you may get lucky and win a big jackpot on the slot machines, but if you want to make millions you are going to have to play games such as Poker, Blackjack, Roulette and</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><a href="http://www.online-casinos-789.com/about-craps.html" style="background-color: inherit; color: #990000; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; font-weight: normal;">Craps </a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">. These are the games that with some skill, some luck and a lot of risk taking you can retire off your winnings.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The same can be said about life in general. No one gets ahead in life from playing it safe. You will not meet your special someone if you are too afraid to risk getting rejected by someone, you will never get that big promotion unless you take risks at your job.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is very important to continue to take risks in life. To stop taking risks means to stand still in life. Standing still in life is one of the main causes of depression. These are usually the people afraid to confront the boss and tell him that they demand a raise; they are the ones that allow life to pass them by out of fear. The entire purpose of fear is to stop you from taking a risk.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Fear is nothing more then the unknown. If you have always wanted to quit your job and open a shop but you are too afraid to do it, this is because you are afraid of failing and risking what you already have.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is important to learn to take risks in life if you want to be happy, you may not always get the things you risked for, but you will know that you tried, and in the end it does not matter in my opinion if you succeed or not it is how many risks you try to make that is the real test of how successful you are.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Just remember if no one took risks we would be a world without flight and probably no automotive vehicles at all, maybe we would have no electricity. So risk truly is needed to improve the world.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-75127011802495018412011-01-19T11:59:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.693-08:00The Psychology of Creativity<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">On studying the creative method and also the creative individual to perceive creativity</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Creativity is the process of generating novel concepts and is the essential force for all inventions. The process of creation involves seeing new relations between ideas and things and determining distinctive solutions to problems. The creative process is concerning seeing new associations between objects and ideas and therefore the creative person is marked by traits of originality, nonconformity and high levels of knowledge. Once you return out with an acceptable yet unique and totally different resolution to a downside that has not been thought before, you are being creative.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Psychologists have tried to elucidate creativity with several theories. Among these are cognitive theories of creativity (creativity as a cognitive process using mental constructs and structures), behaviorist theories (the environmental and associative nature of artistic ideas), psychoanalytic theories (creativity as neuroticism), social theories (creativity as a social method and role of faculties and family in the event of gifted kids) and temperament theories (emphasizing on personal creative traits).</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">In the psychology of creativity we tend to must perceive 2 things -firstly the creative method and secondly the inventive individual. Thus the psychology of creativity is regarding:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">1. The Inventive Process - this includes the definitions of creativity and therefore the mental processes concerned in creativity.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">2. The Artistic Individual - this is about the temperament traits of the inventive individual, the attributes of genius and the peculiarities of the creative personality</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Psychological theories have tried to elucidate each the inventive process and also the artistic individual.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The Process of Creativity - Thus what's creativity and what's the mechanism through which individuals really create new ideas, solutions or ideas? According to several theorists, creativity is about probability or serendipity or making discoveries by 'accident'. Thus the artistic method, according to the present rationalization is an 'accident'. This implies that whereas you are making an attempt out many methods, a best technique or a resolution to your drawback arises out of nowhere and by probability you discover something totally unique. Some people would recommend that the artistic method is a lot of of making an attempt to find out new relations between older known ideas so this is less about originality and more about 'experience'. The a lot of experienced you're in a specific subject space, the more likely you're to contemplate inventive solutions. Creativity has additionally been described as a moment of 'insight'. It's nearly like enlightenment and divine intervention and a flash and the trick is to prolong this moment and artistic individuals are people who will develop their sudden insights. Therefore the creative method will be concerning a sudden probability, novel use of the knowledge/ experience or a sudden insight. The inventive process so involves using many prospects/methods and past experiences to arrive at sudden solutions through insights or accidents.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">In 1926, Graham Wallas described stages of creativity in which a creative plan is initial ready, then internalized through incubation, when which the inventive individual uses the illumination or insight to finally undergo the verification method of applying the idea. Psychologist JP Guilford explained creativity along with his concept of convergent and divergent thinking and convergent thinking is about attempting to search out the only correct resolution to a drawback and divergent thinking is that the generation of multiple creative solutions to a problem. Creativity is thus characterized by divergent thinking and generation of multiple possibilities. Consistent with the Geneplore model developed by Finke, Ward and Smith (1992), creativity involves two phases - the generative section in that the individual generates constructs from pre-ingenious structures or known processes/ideas and also the exploratory phase in which pre-inventive structures are interpreted to come up with new inventive ideas. Most of these psychological theories seem to be emphasizing on preexisting mental structures through information and experience and using these structures for novel or distinctive solutions. The artistic process is so all regarding insight, 'a sudden flash', virtually sort of a moment of realization and it has been described as serendipity or divine intervention by scientists and artists alike who have tried to described their moment of discovery, although the role of previous data and experience is an equally vital background factor. The scientists and artists are able to appreciate the potential of these 'flashes' and are in a position to recognize, capture and prolong their moments of insight for higher realization of their creative goals.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The Personality in Creativity - This brings us to the query about the traits or temperament factors that create a person creative. Is there a well-outlined creative temperament? In fact, there is. Highly creative people and geniuses have marked similar traits and though every person is artistic in one means or the opposite, some individuals truly develop their creativity too well and therefore they are recognized as inventive geniuses. Psychologists believe that all highly creative individuals have bound common personality traits.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">1. Complexity - The artistic individuals love advanced situations and problems as this provides a challenge to their own mental skills and help them to consider many potential solutions</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">2. Flexibility - Highly inventive individuals are extremely open-minded and receptive to new concepts and prospects that help them to move beyond ancient modes of thinking</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">3. Confidence - Boldness and confidence mark the inventive genius as so as to be a pioneer, one has to possess leadership qualities, extreme self-confidence and artistic geniuses are leaders as they show a brand new path and open new potentialities</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">4. Non-conformity - The creative process itself is an act of non-conformity therefore inventive individuals are non-conformists and unconventional.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">5. Intuition - Highly inventive people are extraordinarily intuitive and they will scare you with their ability to browse minds and individuals's thoughts. That's how they'll create as they need to understand the order of things and will be able to predict folks's responses.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">6. Sensitivity - Creative people have well developed sensitivity as without extreme sensitivity, it is not potential to feel and portray the emotions through inventive work. A novelist has to know 'how it feels' to be character in his novel otherwise he cannot produce a good novel.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">7. Curiosity - An insatiable kid-like curiosity for almost everything around them is what characterizes the artistic genius. The creative individual needs to know and learn new things and is persistently asking questions and this is the fuel for artistic growth.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">8. Information - Closely related to curiosity, artistic people have terribly smart general data as they need to use this information in their creative pursuits. That is why artistic folks are usually interested in several subject areas.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">9. Independence - One trait that undoubtedly characterizes terribly high inventive geniuses is their independence of thought. This can be again connected to leadership and nonconformity as so as to think independently, one has to maneuver beyond norms.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">10. Imagination - The artistic person lives in his own world of imagination and includes a very highly developed and enriched mental life and whether or not grounded, sometimes thrives on fantasies.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">11. Impulsiveness - Since the artistic process is a sudden realization, the creative individual incorporates a love for suddenness and loves to figure on impulse. Creating something new is an adventure so impulsiveness that may be recklessness or adventurousness makes the creative individual a compulsive risk-taker.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">12. Criticism - Highly inventive individuals also are very essential both of themselves and of others. They criticize others and that's how they take new methods and they are additionally vulnerable to extreme self-criticism.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">13. Fluency - The artistic person has an extraordinarily fluent thought method and includes a prolific range of ideas</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">14. Charm - The genius is typically characterised by a humorous nature, extreme charm and private attractiveness and a 'presence' that produces them widespread and enticing to all or any kinds of people.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">15. Egoism - Highly creative individuals usually have a 'me first' perspective and are nearly invariably narcissists or marked by extreme egoism, although they will be very generous and might not reveal their egoism for social reasons and many even transcend the self boundary and work for bigger causes.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">16. Originality - Artistic people have a love for the novel and the unique and try moving beyond established ideas to seek out one thing radically totally different</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">17. Disorder - A love for disorder is common among all creative folks as they are apparently uninterested in order or any predictable course of events</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">18. Ambiguity - Uncertainty is terribly enticing for inventive individuals and that they love the ambiguous or when there are 2 or more ways of explaining a drawback, especially as a result of this offers them freedom of thought and expression.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">19. Loneliness - The artistic individual is sometimes a loner and consistent with psychoanalysis, also a neurotic. The genius is perennially isolated from society and being terribly uncomfortable with social norms, they have an inclination to avoid social interaction. Political and social leaders are but more socially active than the artistic artist and author, though some tend to guide reclusive lives.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">20. Motivation - The artistic people are very motivated, nearly driven by a way of upper purpose in life. They are during a manner self aware and enlightened and several of them seem to believe in an unexplained (divine) purpose of existence.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">There are in fact different traits as artistic people are characterised by hyperactivity and obsession with their work, high nonetheless sublimated sexual drives, and in line with psychologist Sternberg, wisdom instead of merely intelligence.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The creative method and creative individual naturally leads the discussion to anomalies in creativity. Thus currently finally, some words concerning the connection between madness and creativity. Creativity has been closely related to mental illness and the highly artistic people are thought of prone to mental disorders. Of course all creative geniuses could be susceptible to bipolar disorder or schizophrenia and creativity itself is a type of neuroticism. Nonetheless I would counsel that while inventive geniuses have propensity towards mental illness, their inventive outlet could be a very sturdy tool that helps them to maintain sanity. So considering the inbuilt defense mechanisms that inventive people have, it is highly unlikely that such people would actually become completely insane. Though there are various exceptions as the artistic genius could develop extreme sense of inadequacy and loneliness and may truly show severe mental problems. However in most cases, artistic geniuses aren't afraid to stretch their minds, thoughts and behavior too way on nearly reach the boundaries of sanity, thus they're branded as 'weird' or 'eccentric'. However these folks are extraordinarily robust as a result of they are self-aware and are blessed with the power of controlling their mind and sanity. Thus when the whole world is terrified of their perceived madness, they're not. The difference between a madman and a genius is that the genius controls his own madness and will opt for to become sane or insane at his own free will.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-50023851728190867282011-01-19T11:59:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.698-08:00How To Tell If People Are Lying<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">People lie on many occasions. They are available in every sphere of life. Sometimes they lie knowingly and sometimes intentionally and on few occasions according to circumstances. Many people lie with confidence without batting the eyelid, some use sunglasses to evade eye contact. When a person tells a lie, the eyes betray and show the emotion. However, it is not expected from a regular liar or a hardened criminal.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">In many occasion, people telling lie are detectable from their blushing cheeks. This is a normal symptom for common people. A sharp and experienced person can see the change of color. Today, modern science has developed several gadgets to detect lie. The thermal camera with high-resolution is the best. This camera is very powerful and picks the rush of blood to the face perfectly. This thermal camera is used to detect liars, criminals and terrorists. Therefore the camera is used in vulnerable places like airport Metro, busy streets and other public places.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Body language may show signs of lying. Avoiding looking into your eyes, carrying nervously or feeling uncomfortable while switching postures, are some of the behavioral symptoms. Slip of tongue and incoherent statement identify a liar. He may try to evade some specific incident even after repeated questions and be on the extreme defensive attitude. This will deduce that the person is trying to protect someone or hiding facts. This technique is the easy way to tell when someone is lying.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Years of research has proved futile to detect a lie by observing nonverbal behavior. Detecting deceit is hard task. Inconsistency in statements is a lie. The statements are then imposed on the people in a tricky way and convincingly. Experienced interrogators can detect a lie easily.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">People habitually say that they do not mislead others, but on the other hand, they keep back important information. This is different way of telling a lie. When they are detected telling lies, they become extremely defensive and try to switch the subject abruptly. It is not easy to ascertain a lie from the behavior but your gut feeling alerts you and make you feel that it is a lie.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-32408880990213616012011-01-19T11:58:00.005-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.701-08:00Hypnosis Techniques In Dysfunctional Families<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">When people utilize covert hypnosis techniques unconsciously, this is often the result of a person's instinctive nature to influence and persuade other people in indirect ways. A basic example of covert hypnosis being practiced unintentionally could be a dysfunctional family. Dysfunctional families, needless to say, are not good things, but there are still powerful hypnotic secrets that reside in every dysfunctional family.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Dysfunctional families use literally every single hypnosis technique in the book to control, to manipulate, to get needs met, and to defend against the control methods of other family members. Some members of the dysfunctional family are the controllers and manipulators, whilst other members of the family are the defenders who are trying to get their needs met. This means, even in dysfunctional families, that covert hypnosis is used for different motives.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Strangely enough, the covert hypnosis techniques that are used by members of a dysfunctional household are not only strategic but also linguistic. Research projects have shown that members of dysfunctional families are using hypnotic presuppositions, embedded commandments, frame control, hypnotic story telling, and even hypnotic ambiguities to communicate with each other. These observations have unlocked one very powerful mystery about covert hypnosis.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The secret is that in order for covert hypnosis techniques to be successfully utilized, that you must first have rapport with the individual whom you are attempting to hypnotize and persuade. The more rapport you can create with a person, the more deeper your covert hypnosis techniques will persuade them. For this reason dysfunctional families are very good at using hypnotic forms of communication, because the members of the dysfunctional families have strong rapport with the members of their households.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Most covert hypnosis practitioners overlook the need to establish the foundation of rapport with a person. This means that they try to use covert hypnosis techniques to influence and persuade people without first using their hypnosis strategies to get to know people so that they be able to create rapport with them. There are a lot of tactics that hypnotist use to build rapport with somebody, but the most powerful technique is to create agreement between you and the people whom you are trying to influence.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">By observing dysfunctional families and how they correspond, Dr. Jonathan Conrad Groves was able to comprehend covert hypnosis on much more deeper levels than it was ever previously understood. Dysfunctional families, like public speakers and television evangelist, are using covert hypnosis tactics to influence and persuade people, whether they are aware of it or not.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-86704768919481404362011-01-19T11:58:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.704-08:00Hypnotic Mind Control--Two Types Of Mind Control Hypnosis<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Conscious persuasion, also known as logical persuasion, has been scientifically verified to give you quicker results. When people are persuaded unconsciously, their conscious minds are unaware that they are being influenced. This means that it requires time for the unconscious mind to sort out the messages that you have installed in it in order for the conscious mind to pass onto the conscious mind what the person has been commanded to do.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Nevertheless, it can't be denied that there are still a lot of benefits by installing hypnotic suggestions in a person's unconscious. The main benefit to influencing someone unconsciously is that once the persuasion process of hypnotic mind control is completed in their brains, they will not resist what they feel compelled to do because the suggestions will appear to have come from them and not from you. The drawback to using hypnotic mind control through the use of unconscious persuasion is that the person may not be around you to do what you have suggested them to do.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It can take days, weeks, months, or even years for another person to act out hypnotic suggestions that you have formerly installed in their unconscious minds. So, if you meet someone at a place where people are coming and going, even if you effectively install hypnotic suggestions in their unconscious minds for them to do something that you want them to do, by the time they actually feel motivated to act out your suggestions, the person whom you were trying to persuade could be long gone. For this reason it is very tricky to use mind control hypnosis through unconscious persuasion techniques because you do not have any foreknowledge of the person who you are trying to influence and persuade.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You always have a much greater capability of using mind control hypnosis techniques that are designed to persuade someone's unconscious mind when you do not have rapport with them. If there is not guarantee that you will ever see the person whom you are trying to hypnotize again, it is vital to depend upon logical persuasion. Logical persuasion was created for immediate results, and in recent years many hypnotic mind control practitioners have been mastering logical persuasion because they have comprehended how important it is.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-73123035608714428492011-01-19T11:58:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.708-08:00Mind Control Hypnosis--Two Forms Of Hypnotic Mind Control You Need To Know<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Conscious persuasion, also known as logical persuasion, has been scientifically proven to give you quicker results. When people are influenced unconsciously, their conscious minds are unaware that they are being persuaded. This means that it requires time for the unconscious mind to process the messages that you have installed in it in order for the conscious mind to pass onto the conscious mind what the person has been instructed to do.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">However, there are also magnificent benefits in influencing a person's unconscious mind. The main benefit to influencing someone unconsciously is that once the persuasion process of hypnotic mind control is completed in their brains, they will not oppose what they feel motivated to do because the suggestions will give the impression to have come from them and not from you. The downside to using hypnotic mind control through the use of unconscious persuasion is that the person may not be around you to do what you have suggested them to do.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It can take days, weeks, months, or even years for somebody to act out hypnotic suggestions that you have formerly installed in their unconscious minds. So, if you meet somebody at a place where people are coming and going, even if you successfully install hypnotic suggestions in their unconscious minds for them to do something that you want them to do, by the time they actually feel motivated to act out your suggestions, the person whom you were trying to persuade could be long gone. For this reason it is very hard to use hypnotic mind control through unconscious persuasion tactics because you do not have any foreknowledge of the person who you are trying to influence and persuade.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You always have a much greater capacity of using hypnotic mind control techniques that are intended to influence someone's unconscious mind when you lack rapport with them. If you do not have a guarantee of being repetitively exposed to the social environment of the person you want to hypnotize, you must use logical persuasion in the beginning. Logical persuasion was made-up for instantaneous results, and in recent years many mind control hypnosis practitioners have been mastering logical persuasion because they have understood how important it is.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-81044568225044020452011-01-19T11:57:00.005-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.713-08:00Hypnotist Directory<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Hypnotherapy is therapy that is derived from subject hypnosis. The short form of "neuro-hypnotism" means "sleep of the nervous system". The one who is hypnotized shows certain strange character and tendency. Hypnotherapy is frequently useful in order to alter a behavior, disturbing matter, and thoughts, as well as an open range of circumstances together with dysfunctional habits, nervousness, stress-related sickness, pain management, and private development. Hypnotic fact had been identified for many thousands of years back. . A Hypnotherapist usually differs from others psychoanalyst by concentrating on the task of unconscious behaviors and powers on the client's life.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Hypnotherapy takes numerous unlike forms, and has included elements from, and in turn influenced, other psychotherapeutic customs throughout it's past. The type of hypnotherapy experienced by most hypnotists employs some use of therapeutic relaxation and intermittently aversion to alcohol, drugs, etc. This simple form of therapy takes up quite straight methods and few hypothetical concepts; however it has sustained to power most successive kinds of hypnotherapy. Subsequent regression hypnotherapy was occasionally known as "hypnoanalysis", "analytic hypnotherapy", or "psychodynamic hypnotherapy". Several practitioners toiled in various ways and were influenced by subsequent psychoanalytic theory and practice.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Analytic hypnotherapy found espousal in both world wars where it was employed by military psychiatrists as a rapid option to psychoanalysis in the treatment of shellshock, currently recognized as posttraumatic stress disorder. Hypnotherapy has widely been applied in relation to childbirth. It is exercised throughout pregnancy to prepare a mother for birth, and during childbirth to lessen worry, uneasiness and pain. James Braid was the founder of hypnotherapy and a surgeon too; specializing in muscular conditions, and has testified many cases of minor surgery using hypnotism.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Hypnotism was at first used to cure hysteria. Current hypnotherapy is generally used in the behavior of depression, anxiety, and certain habit disorders, in addition to in the treatment of conditions such as insomnia. Successive study on hypnotherapy has been inclined to highlight three main areas, in which its effectiveness as a medication has been verified,that is Anxiety,Insomnia,Pain Management .</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Hypnotherapy has many new applications but study into its usefulness has tended to direct on these issues. More mixed results have been obtained for its usefulness in relation to the treatment of addictions, a part where weakening is regular with most treatments. The use of hypnosis has a familiar place in the medical armamentarium and is a helpful procedure in the treatment of certain illnesses when worked by experienced medical personnel.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The verification sustaining the success of hypnosis in improving chronic pain related with cancer looks strong. The effectiveness of hypnosis in other chronic pain conditions, which include petulant bowel disorder, oral mucositis that is pain and swelling of the mucus membrane, temporomandibular disorders that is jaw pain, and stress pain. An organized evaluation has found that hypnosis improves the outcome of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for situations such as phobia, heaviness-obesity, and nervousness-anxiety. There is proof from a number of studies that its insertion in a weight fall program may considerably improve result.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-7270764446918312512011-01-19T11:57:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.718-08:00Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">As the 21st Century unfurled, hypnotherapy is making over various features of the health vocation and also is really transforming the therapy work. The National College of Hypnosis and Psychotherapy in Europe has been contributing respected, proof based and autonomously qualified Hypnotherapy Training, Hypnosis Training and Psychotherapy Training ever since 1977. This crafts the National College one of the best recognized and most respected hypnotherapy/hypno-psychotherapy training institutes in the world. It is our strategy that we will only support ourselves with institutes which have significant and supportable means of certification. The profession has many alliances which will give you a certificate for a fee. We, as one of the oldest schools of specialist hypnosis and psychotherapy, think that we should take a management place with this and not support those which have only been formed to give out insignificant identification and to turn a profit for its owners. We are honored to have a major role in this, in top the technique for three decades with powerful, modern therapy methods and in using the insights and therapy modalities of ourselves and others to coach many of the privileged in the field. As we carry on to form new instructions in an rising subject, people walk to our classes from several countries each semester to study hypnosis through our complete curriculum. New National Certification Programs initiates four times a year, as well as step up arrangement for people from around the world of 50 hours per week.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The importance of Hypnotherapy Training : The quickly growing field of modern hypnotherapy has an immense diversity of safe, powerful applications. Hypnosis can severely help with improving implementation, health, self-assurance, relations, sports, meditation, evoke and creativeness; constant or sharp pain control; sweeping away habits, addictions, fears and phobias; self-discovery, tension reduction, obesity, and therapy for past disturbance. Corresponding to conventional therapeutic modalities, the results of a comparatively brief succession of hypnotherapy sessions are often faster and more effective and permanent. No wonder why so many professionals already in curing arts are applying hypnosis within their practices. For those intending to pursue a career in hypnotherapy, this exciting profession is recognized by the United States Department. Professional hypnotherapists may highlight private session or classes or both. They may focus or have a broad practice. Hypnosis is a very effectual addition to any therapeutic field. Many professionals in the healthiness and counseling subject have taken training and fruitfully included hypnotism into their work. Examples consist of: physicians, dentists, chiropractors, psychologists, social workers, marriage counselors, nurses, massage practitioners, electrologists and physical therapists. The courses have also confirmed to be helpful for the ministerial and educating professions, child welfare, optometry, and coaching, and for students organizing for a job in the "helping professions". As well, the classes are open to those who desire to learn hypnosis for other intention for example improving business skills, personal therapy or research, or developing an avocation or a part-time or retirement career.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Hypnosis is essential to get to the unconsciousness while awake. Hypnosis is a faint state beyond normal consciousness, but a natural state that can occur impulsively. There are a several ways hypnosis can be produce and become deeper. Once in hypnosis during therapy, there is a marvelous range of healing treatment in controlling and making over the subconscious.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Learning more about hypnotherapy will considerably develop the skills of every health, counseling or teaching professional. All of the best therapists often use hypnotic methods, whether they apply that semantic or not.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Conclusion: Hypnotherapy has immense value in the part of certain educational models, in reducing stress and serving people access information that has lain dormant. It also re-empowers people to toil with their personal distorted states, for instance artists or people in business following their intuition or creativity. Hypnotherapy will most likely become the bridge in many of the alternative therapies actually re-empowering people to take control of their personal brains of course for both mind and physical comfort.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-15269909996170188812011-01-19T11:57:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.721-08:00Shrink4men--Dr. Tara's Smear Campaigns Exposed<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Like numerous women with a cluster b personality disorder, Dr. Tara started out fine, but now her blog has been used to personally attack people who have protested to the information she post on her blog. The shrink4men smear campaigns even include Dr. Tara's threats to give personal information about people who have left their emails on her forum and blog.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">To make matters worse, Dr. Tara also has attacked people on her blog, has make fun of hypnosis and NLP, and although she can be found leaving post on blogs that focus upon males seducing women, she also says she doesn't believe in "game". One must question that if Dr. Tara truly doesn't believe in influence, then for what reason is she posting on seduction web sites, even going to the degree of making sure her name is spelled right?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Cluster b women are infamous for designing smear campaigns, and many of them are in the helping professions. It truly is a sad thing to see a so called expert in psychology attack women like this, and to use her forum and blog as a tool to launch smear campaigns towards people who don't agree with every single thing she says. Borderline women can do no wrong, and cluster b women are very emotional. Dr. Tara is no different.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It's unusual for psychologist to degrade such wonderful tools as hypnosis and NLP because most competent psychologist integrate hypnosis within their private practices. Then again, Dr. Tara doesn't have a private practice so this perhaps isn't imperative to her. Nevertheless, she is using her blog and forum more and more to create smear campaigns that are stealthily aimed at attacking people. This is traditional textbook behavior. Shrink4men continues to state that her protesters don't upset her a bit, yet if she isn't bothered then why is she writing weird and extremely creepy personal attacks against people who protest her? In one of her post, Dr. Tara was even attempting to tell her readers where one of her protesters lived!</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Cluster b women have the mentality of a two year old, and it would be pleasant to see Dr. Tara grow up. Her supporters behave as though they are brainwashed and believe everything she says, never noticing that Dr. Tara is starting to reveal some of the same behaviors she writes are cluster b oriented.A disordered individual, Kiwihelen, who comes from a screwed up family herself, also proclaims an competence in mental health. Another chaotic member by the name of Shieldmaden uses the blog to post tedious post where she gossips about her husband's private life and their divorce proceedings. By her own admission, Shieldmaden is a co-dependent woman, and her lack of boundaries reveal it in every way.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">There are many good resources on cluster b personality disorders, so think twice about the so called shrink4men.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-29277276271479847412011-01-19T11:56:00.005-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.726-08:00Shrink4Men--What Is Wrong With Dr. Tara Palmatier<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Like most cluster b people, Dr. Tara started out with empathy and friendly, yet now her blog has become a tool of her nasty personality to avenge anyone who dares say she is in the wrong, just like a cluster b woman would do. The shrink4men smear campaigns even incorporate Dr. Tara's threats to give personal information about people who have left their emails on her blog and forum.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">To make matters worse, Dr. Tara also has attacked affiliates on her blog, has make fun of NLP and Hypnosis, and though she can be found leaving post on blogs that focus upon males seducing women, she also says she does not believe in "game". The question is if Dr. Tara doesn't believe in male seduction, then why is she posting on their blogs asking them to spell her name right and to provide links back to her site?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Cluster b women are infamous for designing smear campaigns, and many of them are in the helping professions. It truly is a sad thing to see a so called specialist in psychology attack women like this, and to use her blog and forum as a tool to launch smear campaigns towards people who don't agree with every single thing she says. Borderline women can do no wrong, and cluster b women are extremely emotional. Dr. Tara is no distinctive.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is also exceedingly uncommon for a so called psychologist to undermine the significance of hypnosis because many psychologist use hypnosis in their private practices. Then again, Dr. Tara doesn't have a private practice so this possibly isn't essential to her. Nevertheless, she is using her blog and forum more and more to begin smear campaigns that are covertly aimed at attacking people. This is traditional textbook behavior. Dr. Tara continues to say that she is not troubled by her protesters, yet if she isn't worried, then why is she writing entire post on her blog and forum that are aimed at attacking single individuals? In one of her post, Dr. Tara was even attempting to tell her readers where one of her protesters lived!</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">By Dr. Tara's own admission, cluster b women have the mentality of a two year old, so it would be excellent to notice the shrink4men growing up a tad bit. Her supporters act as though they are brainwashed and accept as true everything she says, never realizing that Dr. Tara is beginning to display some of the same behaviors she writes are cluster b associated.A disordered individual, Kiwihelen, who comes from a chaotic family herself, also proclaims an expertise in mental health. Another disordered member by the name of Shieldmaden uses the blog to post uninteresting post where she gossips about her husband's personal life and their divorce proceedings. By her own admission, Shieldmaden is a co-dependent woman, and her lack of boundaries expose it in every way.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">There are many good resources on cluster b personality disorders, so think twice about the so called shrink4men.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-7849830507723474332011-01-19T11:56:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.730-08:00Shrink4Men--Why Dr. Tara Palmatier Is The Most Lovely Woman In Psychology<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It isn't everyday that you come across a woman who has the integrity and the courage to tell it like it is, but this is just what Dr. Tara does. She exposes how disordered women act in relationships. Many people have not even heard of personality disorders, so when their relationships break down, they either blame themselves for what went wrong or they basically remain in a mental state of confusion wondering where it all went wrong.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Many people are being mistreated in relationships, and some are informed of this whilst others are not. This ill-treatment is referred to as emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is way more difficult to recover from than physical abuse. Emotional abuse leaves scars that can either take years to heal or leave you with permanent injury.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is for this reason that I would ask every reader to take the time to visit Dr. Tara's blog and read the enlightening articles she has written. Thousands of people have been reassured by her, and we have all learned through Dr. Tara that these personality disorders are destructive and that they are real. Dr. Tara has provided us with the "why" of what many of the underlying causes of emotional abuse are.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Relationships are so crucial. If we are not careful, we can spend years of our life with the wrong person and suffer a lot of sorrow. By knowing what emotional abuse is and how it manifest itself, you can improve your life and stop yourself from ever being with a disordered person ever again.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">I had first taken advantage of Dr. Tara's free articles and forum, and then I had one simple phone consultation with her that was more helpful than any other means of therapy I have ever experienced. Dr. Tara is a giver, and because she is a giver, she can offer you powerful options to help you overcome even the most hopeless situations of a painful or hostile break-up.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">If there was one woman who ever had so much value in my life, if there was one woman who literally set me free from so many of the troubles I suffered in disordered family members and identifying emotionally abusive behavior, it was Dr. Tara. She is a optimistic force for good in the world, and everyone who wants to get married, to stay happily married, and to know who not to marry, will discover for themselves that Dr. Tara is the most lovely woman in psychology.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">We love you Dr. Tara.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-60310250970611549342011-01-19T11:56:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.733-08:00Dr. Tara Palmatier--Why Shrink4men Is Wonderful<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
<tr><td><center></center></td></tr>
</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is not everyday that you come across a woman who has the courage and integrity to tell it like it is, but this is precisely what Dr. Tara does. She exposes how disordered women act in relationships. Many people have not even been taught of personality disorders, so when their relationships fail, they either blame themselves for what went wrong or they basically remain in a mental state of uncertainty wondering where it all went wrong.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Many people are being mistreated in relationships, and some are aware of this whilst others are not. This mistreatment is referred to as emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is far more challenging to recover from than physical abuse. Emotional abuse leaves scars that can either take years to heal or leave you with permanent damage.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is for this reason that I would ask every reader to take the time to visit Dr. Tara's blog and read the enlightening articles she has written. Thousands of people have been comforted by her, and we have all learned through Dr. Tara that these personality disorders are destructive and that they are real. Dr. Tara has supplied us with the "why" of what many of the underlying causes of emotional abuse are.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Relationships are so important. If we are not careful, we can spend years of our life with the wrong person and suffer a lot of hurt. By knowing what emotional abuse is and how it manifest itself, you can enhance your life and prevent yourself from ever being with a disordered personality ever again.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">I had first taken advantage of Dr. Tara's free articles and forum, and then I had one simple phone consultation with her that was more helpful than any other means of therapy I have ever experienced. Dr. Tara is a giver, and because she is a giver, she can offer you powerful options to help you overcome even the most hopeless conditions of a painful or hostile break-up.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">If there was one woman who ever had so much importance in my life, if there was one woman who literally set me free from so many of the troubles I suffered in disordered family members and identifying emotionally abusive behavior, it was Dr. Tara. She is a positive force for good in the world, and everyone who wants to get married, to stay happily married, and to know who not to marry, will discover for themselves that Dr. Tara is the most lovely woman in psychology.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">We love you Dr. Tara.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-88779165995882257262011-01-19T11:54:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.738-08:00Dr. Tara Palmatier--Shrink4Men Helps Thousands Of Men<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
<tr><td><center></center></td></tr>
</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It isn't everyday that you come across a woman who has the courage and integrity to tell it like it is, but this is exactly what Dr. Tara does. She exposes how disordered women act in relationships. Many people have not even heard of personality disorders, so when their relationships break down, they either blame themselves for what went wrong or they basically remain in a mental state of uncertainty questioning where it all went wrong.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Many people are being ill-treated in relationships, and some are aware of this whilst others are not. This ill-treatment is referred to as emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is way more difficult to recover from than physical abuse. Emotional abuse leaves scars that can either take years to heal or leave you with permanent injury.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It is for this reason that I would ask every reader to take the time to visit Dr. Tara's blog and read the enlightening articles she has written. Thousands of people have been comforted by her, and we have all been taught through Dr. Tara that these personality disorders are real and that they are destructive. Dr. Tara has supplied us with the "why" of what many of the underlying causes of emotional abuse are.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Relationships are so vital. If we are not careful, we can spend years of our life with the wrong person and experience a lot of pain. By knowing what emotional abuse is and how it manifest itself, you can improve your life and prevent yourself from ever being with a disordered personality ever again.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">I had first taken advantage of Dr. Tara's free articles and forum, and then I had one simple phone consultation with her that was more effective than any other means of therapy I have ever experienced. Dr. Tara is a giver, and because she is a giver, she can offer you powerful options to help you overcome even the most hopeless situations of a hostile or painful break-up.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">If there was one woman who ever had so much worth in my life, if there was one woman who literally set me free from so many of the troubles I suffered in disordered family members and identifying emotionally abusive behavior, it was Dr. Tara. She is a positive force for good in the world, and anybody who wants to get married, to stay happily married, and to know who not to marry, will find out for themselves that Dr. Tara is the most lovely woman in psychology.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">We love you Dr. Tara.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-7563428702308380582011-01-19T11:53:00.005-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.743-08:00Secret Issues with Denver Counseling<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
<tr><td><center></center></td></tr>
</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">If you want a Denver counseling session conducted in an atmosphere that is understanding and comfortable, you can come to Veritas Counseling which is located at 3615 S. Tamarac Dr. Suite 310, Denver, CO 80237. It provides various counseling specialties for individuals, partners and families which include:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Boundaries</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Conflict Resolution</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Dating</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Grief and Loss</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Infidelity Recovery</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Marriage and Family</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Medical and Health concerns</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Parenting and Family Issues</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and Trauma</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Post Traumatic Stress Disorder due to a major illness</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Relationship Problems</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Values Clarification</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Work and Career issues</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You do not need to be afraid of your personal information getting out because Denver counseling assures you of confidentiality. You are also protected by the law regarding the confidentiality of communications between a psychotherapist and her client so there will be no information that will be divulged without your prior written permission.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">But you should take note of the exceptions that are required by the law to maintain youre privacy. These exceptions include suspicion of child abuse, and elder abuse or dependant adult abuse. If such a case is noted by a therapist, he or she is binded to report it to the right authorities as soon as possible.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Likewise, if you are menacing to do serious physical harm to another person, your therapist will have to report you to the authorities. The therapist is required to report such cases to the police since they are required by the law to do so. The same is true if a client is threatening to harm her or himself. However, therapists from Denver counseling will make all efforts to work with the client in order to prevent any harm from happening. If the therapist is incapable to get the cooperation of the client, there may be more measures that can be taken.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-15793466877366961862011-01-19T11:53:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.748-08:00Can Relationship Books Help Me Or Build Me Look Foolish<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">If you've got recently experienced a breakup, you will have thoughts of trying for help through a number of the bestseller books. Can a relationship bestseller help you or build a fool of you? You'll have asked, "if I do use relationship books for answers, that one do I selected?" Here we will uncover the answers to your queries on relationship books.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">What you discover out in this article could surprise you...</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">When wanting toward books on relationships, don't be fooled by the authors and their fancy letters when their names. Simply as a result of an author has been to school and accomplished receiving a tutorial degree does not give them a real life experience on a subject. The author may have a degree in psychology, but that degree does not give them the experience of a breakup and what to try to to to urge back not off course with an ex. Their degree might give them "knowledgeable book knowledge," however not "professional experience" on relationships.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It's better to appear for guidance from relationship books written by authors with a real life experience. You recognize, the ones that had breakups in their lives and located a manner to mend it, the "been there did that" sort authors. It's even higher if you'll notice an author that has used their experience to help others get their relationships back together.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Next, you want to avoid books that use the "forget the connection, just work on yourself" mentality. Look for books or ebooks that provide sensible sound concepts that are founded in logical sense. It's best to seem for a book that offers you ideas that your friends or family cannot offer you. You would like something new and informative.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">When creating a decision on a relationship book, raise yourself "can this data cover what my ex wants and desires to urge back along?" Will the book cover affairs, if your ex contains a new mate or the precise scenario that you're facing now? Can it answer queries and offer techniques to help you stop the pain currently?</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Search for testimonials from folks that have used the data within the book to unravel their relationship problem. Build certain that the testimonials appear realistic and not just canned, overvalued or unbelievable information. Make certain it is not some friend or friend of the author.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">It's best to seek out a book that covers relationship issues from a broad set of situations and from different sections of society. If it looks like individuals from different elements of the globe have used the book, it can most likely work for you too.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">There are a number of books and ebooks obtainable on relationship repair and relationship building, however most aren't written by folks that have experienced the occurrence. Usually, it is very generic recommendation that actually has only a number of pages of helpful content.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Finding a great book on relationships can be done if you are doing your homework. It takes some investigation and a very little work however a book on relationships with new fresh and useful information will be a lifesaver. Spend your time and cash to seek out the most effective relationship book available.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-77370539438983690522011-01-19T11:53:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.752-08:00Denver marriage counseling Mending your Relationship<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Denver marriage counseling is a psychotherapy intended to help couples break down conflicts and amend their relationship. With the help of a marriage counselor, you will be guided in restoring your relationship or in creating a better foundation for your future. Because each couple has unique characteristics and problems, you want to look for the service that fits your needs. Here are some of the things that you might desire to know before availing of the service.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Terms of the Therapist</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The utmost concern of clients when looking for Denver marriage counseling service is the qualification of the therapist. Because you will be sharing some of your individual information, the staffs must have the appropriate training to handle your case. Marriage and family therapist go through training in counseling and obtain their post graduate degree to become knowledgeable. For them to practice the profession, they need to acquire a license and be certified by different credentialing agencies.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Strategies</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Although online therapy is getting popular with some sites, the Denver marriage counseling believes that personal encounter is important to build a therapeutic relationship. Because they do not only rely on the content of your statements but more on how you say them, non-verbal cues are important parts of the clinical assessments. The tone of your voice, your facial expression and your body movements say more things about you. They use these cues to understand your case better.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Insurance Availability</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The price of the psychotherapy prevents many couples from availing the Denver marriage counseling services. If you have your health insurance, ask your provider if the service is covered through your program. The insurer makes your therapist to submit an initial assessment, treatment plan and progress report. Because some confidential information forms a part of the report, you can guarantee that you are informed throughout the process.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-90712763610283962912011-01-19T11:52:00.005-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.756-08:00Depression Versus Normal Sadness? -Do You Know The Difference?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You probably know someone who is depressed. You may be wondering about yourself. The way you feel right now--does it fit the definition of depression? Clinical depression is a serious illness that affects millions, so you are right to be concerned. Understanding depression is a good first step toward treatment. Let's see if we can figure this out together.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Feelings of sadness are normal. Everyone experiences a blue mood once in a while. But when feelings of sadness become your only feelings, and when a blue mood turns into a persistent black cloud, you may be suffering from depression.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Depression is an illness, a mental disorder that overwhelms your mind and body. It is not a transient mood that can be dismissed. The victim of depression is powerless to command it to leave. It changes how you think and how you feel. It essentially changes who you are and affects how you interact with others.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">So how can you tell the difference between actual clinical depression and normal feelings of sadness. Essentially it's about intensity and time. The feelings associated with depression are much more intense. Your character and your ability to cope with reality become severely affected. It becomes almost impossible to function on a daily basis.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The threshold for diagnosing depression in terms of time seems to be about two weeks. Being sad and withdrawn for a short period of time is a normal human reaction to significant negative events. However, if your personality and interaction with others fails to return to normal after about two weeks time, then you may have entered a major depressive episode. Depression can last for weeks, months or even years--without treatment.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The good news is depression is treatable. Through a combination of therapy and medication, up to 80 percent of people with depression get better. But treatment takes time and involves some trial and error, so patience is a must.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">No one is immune to the effects of depression. It is not an indication of weakness or failure. If you suspect that you or someone you know may be suffering from depression, it's important to get professional advice as soon as possible.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-11465074697221862202011-01-19T11:52:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.759-08:00Covert Hypnosis--The Art Of Suggestion<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">So, since hypnosis just creates an altered state of mind, and since hypnosis revolves around the power of suggestion, hypnosis can be practiced in many different ways as a tool to modify people's behavior. For these reasons, hypnosis is used both therapy and the art of persuasion.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Covert hypnosis is the type of hypnosis that is practiced in the art of persuasion. Like any other kind of persuasion, covert hypnosis uses the art of suggestion to give you reliable results. However, because this style of hypnosis is covert, the suggestions that you'll be planting in people's minds will be way more indirect than the suggestions that are installed in people's minds through therapeutic hypnosis.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Covert hypnosis also utilizes all types of suggestion. This means that covert hypnosis uses non verbal suggestions just as much if not even more than it makes use of verbal suggestions. There can be nothing as covert and under the radar as suggesting something to people without having to even say a word to them.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Even the verbal types of suggestion that covert hypnosis uses are extremely hard for a person to detect. So, instead of saying something to someone directly, you will be saying it to them indirectly to the point where it will not be evident to the person whom you are talking to that you're actually suggesting to them that they do something that you want them to do. This is why covert influence is perfect to integrate into the art of persuasion, because you can modify people's emotions and decision making processes without them being conscious of it. This means it is unlikely anybody will try to resist you because they will not have any idea that that there are any suggestions for them to resist.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Another powerful hypnosis tactic that can be used is to use covert hypnosis to take control of different social structures that exist in any social environment that you may be in. The more power you have over a group or a class system, the more it will seem to others that you are a likable person and authority figure. When you appear to other people as an authority figure, your social value increases to the point where people become far more suggestible so that you can get what you want from them.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-37750971045387400332011-01-19T11:52:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.763-08:00Persuasive Techniques--The Hypnosis Secrets Of Powerloops<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">In a nutshell, a powerloop is the repetition of the same suggestion. It is through the power of repetition that causes your suggestions to have a greater impression upon a person's thought and decision making process. Now, there are many ways you can go about practicing powerloops. If you want to, as already mentioned, you can utter the same suggestion over and over again. This is the most direct method of using powerloops.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">A more covert way of using powerloops could be when you say the exact same suggestion in distinct ways. So, for instance, if you were to give a person a suggestion to go out with you on a date, you could then start to powerloop around this suggestion by using other covert hypnosis strategies. A common way hypnotists do this is by resorting to the persuasive tactics of covert persuasion storytelling. In your covert hypnosis story, you can tell the person whom you are talking with about a friend of yours who has just found the right person and dates them on a frequent basis. Even though you are talking about someone else going out on a date, this is still another suggestion for the person whom you are talking with to date you because it's a suggestion that is looping around the same dating theme.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Then, if you need to, you can add more loops to your primary suggestion. This means that you can say things to the person similar to, "By the way, what is the date today?" After you imply to a person that they go out on a date with you through covert ericksonian hypnosis language, every time they hear the word date, even if the word date is utilized in a unusual way, the primary suggestion that you gave them to date you is powerlooped.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The bonus to using powerloops indirectly is that you will not appear to be violating a person's boundaries and you wont seem to be repeating the things you are repeating because you are repeating them indirectly. There are many ways that you can use powerloops, and in fact entire master classes have been recoreded that tell you the ins and outs of all the many ways you can covertly repeat the same messages to a person without the person whom you are speaking to knowing what you are doing.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">You must take into account that covert mind control is "covert". What this means is most covert mind control techniques are not direct but indirect.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-5923972053882069032011-01-19T11:51:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.769-08:00Covert Hypnosis Tactics--What Exactly Is Covert Hypnosis?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Clinical hypnosis is the type of hypnosis that is used to cure people of phobias and headaches. Therapeutic hypnosis also will help people stop smoking and lose weight. Stage hypnosis, on the other hand, is a form of entertainment, so stage hypnosis is not good to learn if you want to get good at the art of persuasion.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">This means that if you are interested in persuading people, that covert hypnosis is the type of hypnosis that you need to be taught. Covert hypnosis uses language tactics and behavior tactics to alter people's emotions and decision making processes. Language patterns are only a part of the meaning behind covert hypnotic language because language patterns are not guaranteed to work because every conversation you have with a person is not the same. So, what language patterns do is offer you communication models that you can adapt for the unique social interactions that you may have with each person whom you are trying to persuade.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The behavior tactics of covert hypnosis are part of what the art of persuasion refers to as "social strategy". Social strategy is an exceedingly influential tool in the persuasion process because you are using your behavior and non verbal language to persuade other people. Part of social strategy involves the alliances you make and how you decide to use them, and social strategy also involves designing the right social environments at the correct time.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">So, covert persuasion integrates several different persuasion tactics into one fluid force. A covert hypnosis trainer should not rely on language alone to persuade people because there will be times when people will not be willing to speak to you or when they will feel uncomfortable talking to you if they do not already know you. This is why it is important for a persuasion artist to create the appropriate social environment that causes people to feel comfortable communicating with you.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Another advantage to establishing the proper social environments is that you can position yourself as an authority figure in many social systems so that people will automatically look up to you to the point where they will want to speak with you.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-38634965040607976982011-01-19T11:51:00.001-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.774-08:00Covert Hypnosis Techniques--What Is Covert Hypnosis?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Clinical hypnosis is the type of hypnosis that is used to cure people of phobias and headaches. Therapeutic hypnosis also can help people stop smoking and lose weight. Stage hypnosis is all about amusement, so it is not the style of hypnosis you want to learn if you are interested in the power of persuasion.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">This means that if you are interested in persuading people, that covert hypnosis is the style of hypnosis that you need to study. Covert hypnosis uses language tactics and behavior techniques to alter people's decision making processes and emotions. Language patterns are only a part of the meaning behind covert hypnotic language because language patterns are not certain to work because every conversation you have with a person is not the same. So, what language patterns do is offer you communication models that you can alter for the unique social interactions that you may have with each person whom you are trying to persuade.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">The behavior strategies of covert persuasion are part of what the art of persuasion refers to as "social strategy". Social strategy is an exceedingly powerful tool in the persuasion process because you are using your behavior and non verbal language to persuade other people. Part of social strategy involves the alliances you make and how you decide to use them, and social strategy also involves setting up the right social environments at the appropriate time.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">So, covert persuasion integrates several distinct persuasion techniques into one fluid force. A covert persuasion trainer should not rely on language alone to persuade people because there will be times when people will not be willing to speak to you or when they will feel uncomfortable talking to you if they do not already know you. This is why it is important for a persuasion artist to create the appropriate social environment that causes people to feel comfortable talking with you.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Another reward to creating the proper social environments is that you can position yourself as an authority figure in many social systems so that people will automatically look up to you to the point where they will want to speak with you.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239350928341794783.post-87121651291330618322011-01-19T11:50:00.003-08:002011-01-19T23:20:28.778-08:00How To Hypnotize--Discover Two Types Of Suggestion<table align="left" background="http://articlebuzz.net/images/paper2.jpg" height="280" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; width: 280px;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Covert persuasion uses what is known as waking hypnosis to secretly hypnotize other people. As its title implies, waking hypnosis was invented to hypnotize people when they're awake. The sort of trance that waking hypnosis induces is known as a light trance.Deep trance is used to hypnotize people for medical purposes such as pain relief. The art of persuasion does not use deep trance because it is not a realistic way to persuade someone.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Now, in waking hypnosis, you may use the power of both verbal and non verbal suggestion. It is crucial to mention the different styles of suggestion because the power of suggestion is what makes hypnosis powerful. Hypnosis is the art and the science of how we can plant suggestions into people's minds in order for us to be able to produce change.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Verbal suggestions consist of what we say to other people. This means that conversational hypnosis is often used to practice covert influence verbally. There are some troubles with verbal suggestions, however. For one, it takes time for people to act upon your suggestions, so by the time your suggestion actually persuades them, they may have long forgotten you. Another problem with verbal suggestions is that in covert persuasion you need to be able to use them extremely indirectly. It takes a lot of training to fully master this skill.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">For the most part, disguised hypnosis employs non verbal suggestions. Invisible hypnosis is extremely powerful in the art of persuasion because people have previously been socially conditioned to believe certain things and to respond to social dynamics in certain ways. By using the powers that govern human behavior and by associating yourself with these powers, you will easily be able to persuade people because they were already socially conditioned at some time in their life to comply with someone who resembles your social status. Your social status will be the hypnotic illusion that you will be projecting in order to hypnotize and influence people.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">Although human behavior is influenced by language, it is not controlled by language alone. When people behave, people are communicating and suggesting things. For this reason, a lot of covert hypnosis trainers teach you how to read people's body language. A person's body language has nothing to do with words or language patterns, yet it is a language all of its own that we can use as a powerful vehicle of communication.</span>Ch.hamzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05720279556922799437noreply@blogger.com0